Know Your Value & Thrive. You're Worth It

Many of you have shared your challenges and celebrations, and I'm honoured to be a part of your journey, but the theme this year seems to be this: "Know your value, and you will thrive." 

Each year, I clear the clutter from both life and business, and work with clients to do the same.

  • We revisit our goals, core drivers and sources of passion and energy,
  • We eliminate 'extras' that don't meaningfully contribute to those goals,
  • We FIND enhancers, those things and relationships that DO support our goals. 

It really is that simple. The most challenging aspect of this is - Deciding, and then Committing to, those goals. What would it take for you to focus on and commit to your true, intrinsic goals? 

Speaking & Impact

I have a few blog posts that point to Pareto's 80/20 - it's one of Successiory's core values:  

  • Who are the 20% of people in your life who are 80% positives (clients, referrals, love and encouragement)? 
  • What are the 20% of activities that generate 80% of your revenue, 80% of your energy or even 80% of your time-savings?
  • What are the 20% of things (as we're still a consumer society) that really give you 80% return in some way? 

Now, the ratio may not always be 80/20, but you get the message. If you're finding that 24/7 is not enough time, why not focus only focus on these first? See if you ever return to the others. 

As an introvert, I have to maximize my time with people in order to avoid being drained quickly. If you've been networking without focus, introvert or not, you know how quickly you can lose morale. If you get clear on your ideal client - your ideal audience - then speaking to that audience can truly be your Networking 80/20. 

What you have to say, what you share when you're networking, in conversations, in supporting clients, can help many more people. Whether you're speaking as an expert to sell services or as a paid speaker on your expertise, you can reach a lot more people in a far shorter space of time. I'm not alone in this. Here's what I shared with three (3) other Women Speakers Association professionals: 

What's keeping you from stepping into your value, into what you want, what you're worth?

Streamlining Authentically 

In my interview with Janette Burke, on Janette's I'm Every Woman! TV, "Do You Run Your Business or Does Your Business Run You", I spoke a lot about giving yourself permission to run your business Your way. I know it's great to have everyone like you and want to work with you, but is it really? Can you truly be everything to everyone? If you haven't seen this, take a look:

[Read "The Audacity" for a powerful boost.] If you're breathing a bit deeper, if your shoulders feel less burdened and you have a renewed sense of "yes! I know what I want and it IS possible to do it my way", what does that mean to you? What does:

  • Your pricing, packages and live or automated offers, 
  • Your client engagement process (including social media) - your role, your clients' roles - and 
  • Your schedule - I mean your truly 'available', truly productive, hours, 

Have to be to let you not 'barely survive', but thrive, in business and still leave room for a life?

Remember, whatever business you build - and however it works - you want it to be something you can do for a long time. You invest time, energy, money and so much more that you can't get back, in your business. Why not create a sustainable model that will take you 5, 10, 15+ years into the future? It's a lot easier to start as you mean to go on than to change course later.

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New communities that do this for me: Women Speakers Association (WSA) and Shecosystem (coworking space and community). As an introvert, I'm not everywhere, but when I find jewels, I'll share.


Crystal-Marie Sealy, MBA, is a speaker and business strategy consultant focused on pricing, social media and more, for established small businesses, entrepreneurs and executives. President, founder of Successiory and her signature E.A.S.Y. Strategy process, Crystal-Marie works with professionals who want to build sustainable (livable) business models around their lifestyles and create sustainable client community on social media. She also speaks and delivers workshops at business and motivational conferences on business entrepreneurial strategy for pricing, your schedule and client social media community.Connect with her and subscribe at

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(2016-Aug-18) On paper, my career began in 2001, spans Successiory (2009), my MBA from the Schulich School of Business (2010), two countries and several industries, including business strategy, social media consulting, environmental and engineering consulting, higher education and more (see LinkedIn). 

In 2015, I was nominated for Canadian Association of Marketing Professionals (CAMP) Awards,Entrepreneur of the Year and became an bestseller on August 9th 2015. I spoke at 12 events in 2015 alone, including several GroYourBiz Advisory Boards, Bank of Montreal (paid), Iler Campbell’s Tools Conference and Toronto Public Libraries’ Small Business (sometimes paid) series. I think I love speaking!

On a personal note, I'm an MBA, entrepreneur, millennial, dancer, author and so much more yet, like you, I don't fit the stereotypes. After years of workaholism and the health and relationship losses that go with that lifestyle, I've stopped 'paying lip service' to terms like authenticity, self care and sustainability. My health scare pushed me into living them. Here's hoping I can inspire you to live and work better without learning the hard way. Welcome. Still curious? More here...

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